Restorative Conferencing is a structured, facilitated process that brings together the person who caused harm, the person harmed, and community members (when appropriate) to talk about what happened, how people were affected, and what can be done to repair the harm.

Participation is always voluntary. If the person harmed does not wish to take part, the conference cannot move forward in its full form. In these cases, other restorative options, such as support circles, victim statement, bringing in a proxy, may still be offered.

Just like with the person harmed, the person who caused harm must also willingly agree to take part. If they do not, the process cannot proceed. Restorative practices rely on accountability and consent, not coercion.

It is not uncommon for both parties to feel hurt. In these cases, the facilitator works with each person to ensure their perspectives are heard and validated. The goal remains to create understanding and find ways to move forward with accountability and healing.

At PiRI, we use the term Re-Engagement because our focus is on helping students reconnect to their school community with support, rather than simply re-entering as if nothing has happened. Also, Re-Entry language is utilized for individuals returning from some form of engagement with the carceral system.

The length can vary depending on the situation, but most Restorative Conferences last between 1-3 hours. The most important factor is that every participant has the opportunity to speak, be heard, and contribute to the resolution.